These are all huge red flags, don’t fall for his charm or excuses, it’s not worth the heartbreak in the end.
The most important thing for me is can you really make the long distance relationship work?
Are you patient enough to understand that while friends and people around you may be settling down and moving on with their lives, you’re going to be back and forth only seeing each other for a limited number of days per year until you come to a decision as to where your future is?
An important thing to be sure of is that you both wanting the same thing, are you both looking for a quick fling, or is one of you more serious than the other?
While on holiday, a lot of us let our guards down, we are physically and emotionally relaxed and free from all the stresses of home, this makes it oh so easy to get carried away, but in reality, when you’re 4000 miles away back at home and have work to do and bills to pay, are you still going to be as interested in your Turkish ‘lover’?
You can only visit each other so much as your job, and your bank balance permits.