Ladies listen, this man did not get used to a kid screaming like you did, he was not kept up nights tending to the crying and projectile poop, he isn’t seasoned in this.Above all else, including your want for a mate is your child’s safety.If you and the woman are just trying to have sex then you should not be meeting her kids.
The single parent dilemma is felt the hardest by the children, and as a product of such a household I am lucky enough to have this insight in my dating life.
Many guys just don’t know how to deal with a child that isn’t theirs and it becomes immediately evident to the child, even when the mom is disillusioned into thinking that the guy is perfect.
Ask your Teen: If you have a teenager it is very important that you get their approval after an introduction or two is made with your potential lover.
If your kid has daddy issues, as in wanting you to stay alone in hopes of your ex coming back into your life – then go ahead and skip the introduction to the new guy.
It is not your place to discipline an unruly child either, check his/her mom on that, and if it gets too much – call it a day and leave.