” and “You’re gorgeous, I’d love to chat.” If you want to get her attention, try doing something a bit more personal.
One girl we spoke to told a story about a guy who sent her a hilarious quote from the movie she had mentioned in her profile.
There’s obviously a reason she didn’t think it would work out, so why keep trying to pursue someone who is clearly not interested in you?
Instead, channel your energy into meeting someone else. A general rule: once you’ve sent four messages back and forth, someone should ask someone out — preferably the man. The scenario: “I was really into someone I went on a few dates with, until he told me he was taking down his online dating profile and he wanted me to do the same.” — Jess, 34The problem..the solution: Nothing will scare a girl faster than putting that kind of pressure on her too early into the relationship.
A lot of you are self-conscious about the fact that you’re on a dating site.