Instead of the female curve, which suggests that 34-year-old women like 34-year-old men, men find 20 year-old women most physically appealing, no matter how old they were. This doesn’t mean that 40 year old men want to MARRY that 20 year old woman, only that they find her the most physically appealing.To tell men NOT to feel this way would be akin to telling them not to breathe.
I’ve talked about how women should value nice guys a little more. Telling women to value nice guys more is like telling men to value older, heavier women more. At the end of the day, we all have two choices: stay exactly as we are right now and wait until we find someone who appreciates us, or adjust who we are to become appealing to more people.
You’ve had a lot of time to think about this, my friend. In fact, the biggest problem you have surrounding sex is that you’re making WAY too big a deal about it. You need to make up for lost time and catch up with what everyone else was doing from 14-21.
Your advice is thoughtful and reasonable, unlike many others out there. Despite my attempts since I went to college, I am still a virgin.
Suffice to say, you’ve given me a lot to think about. Yes, I’ve seen the movie, and I won’t lie: I’m afraid of becoming the archetype of that fictional character.
Over the years, I’ve learnt—albeit slowly, it seems—about many mistakes I’ve been doing.